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		<title>By: Ouyang Dan</title>
		<link>http://mzbitca.wordpress.com/2008/11/06/this-may-sound-mean-but/#comment-218</link>
		<dc:creator>Ouyang Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 06:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also agree that we were meant to see Cuddy&#039;s behavior as bad, WRT the way she exerted her privilege and authority over that young woman (and even over other doctors, as she slightly abused her authority a few times during the episode).  I don&#039;t believe we were meant to be overly sympathetic to her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also agree that we were meant to see Cuddy&#8217;s behavior as bad, WRT the way she exerted her privilege and authority over that young woman (and even over other doctors, as she slightly abused her authority a few times during the episode).  I don&#8217;t believe we were meant to be overly sympathetic to her.</p>
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		<title>By: Ouyang Dan</title>
		<link>http://mzbitca.wordpress.com/2008/11/06/this-may-sound-mean-but/#comment-217</link>
		<dc:creator>Ouyang Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 06:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I felt that watching that episode.  It reeked of privilege of the rich white woman getting what she wants b/c some poor girl made a trashy mistake...

but what disturbed me more were the ethical &quot;dilemmas&quot; that Cuddy and House were left discussing.

Disturbing, b/c it is too close to home, that sometimes doctors care more about the fetus growing inside of the woman than the woman who is actually that doctor&#039;s patient (am I  being clear?).  Until that fetus is no longer depending on that woman for life and blood the woman is the doctor&#039;s patient, not the fetus (unless the doctor happens to be a Ped).  Cuddy&#039;s decision in that situation was obviously a case of a conflict of interest.  Cuddy should not have been allowed to make decisions involving the mother and fetus&#039; life.  Now, I don&#039;t remember, but in one of his snarky moments, I believe House told her that they should deliver the baby, which, in all seriousness would have been the right call.  There are some other complicated details there, but there is a serious tendency for doctors to act as though the mother is a disposable incubator, and those are the ones that aren&#039;t waiting to take the babies home for themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I felt that watching that episode.  It reeked of privilege of the rich white woman getting what she wants b/c some poor girl made a trashy mistake&#8230;</p>
<p>but what disturbed me more were the ethical &#8220;dilemmas&#8221; that Cuddy and House were left discussing.</p>
<p>Disturbing, b/c it is too close to home, that sometimes doctors care more about the fetus growing inside of the woman than the woman who is actually that doctor&#8217;s patient (am I  being clear?).  Until that fetus is no longer depending on that woman for life and blood the woman is the doctor&#8217;s patient, not the fetus (unless the doctor happens to be a Ped).  Cuddy&#8217;s decision in that situation was obviously a case of a conflict of interest.  Cuddy should not have been allowed to make decisions involving the mother and fetus&#8217; life.  Now, I don&#8217;t remember, but in one of his snarky moments, I believe House told her that they should deliver the baby, which, in all seriousness would have been the right call.  There are some other complicated details there, but there is a serious tendency for doctors to act as though the mother is a disposable incubator, and those are the ones that aren&#8217;t waiting to take the babies home for themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: Dori</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 14:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To be honest, I haven&#039;t seen the episode, but based on other story lines in this show that have had to deal with childbearing and pregnancy, this comes as little surprise.

Mostly, I&#039;m annoyed that they went there. Especially in reinforcing this whole &quot;single career woman desperate to be a mother at any cost&quot; meme in the character of Cuddy. Why the hell can&#039;t there be a single woman with a career who is not depicted as an emotional wreck jumping to the tick of her biological clock?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To be honest, I haven&#8217;t seen the episode, but based on other story lines in this show that have had to deal with childbearing and pregnancy, this comes as little surprise.</p>
<p>Mostly, I&#8217;m annoyed that they went there. Especially in reinforcing this whole &#8220;single career woman desperate to be a mother at any cost&#8221; meme in the character of Cuddy. Why the hell can&#8217;t there be a single woman with a career who is not depicted as an emotional wreck jumping to the tick of her biological clock?</p>
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		<title>By: Renee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Renee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 16:22:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I watched this episode and I kept thinking that something felt so wrong about it but I couldn&#039;t express what.  You are right it was the privilege all over the place.  Cuddy could not consider an older child, or one of a different race.  I also didn&#039;t like the shaming of the mother when she said that she didn&#039;t want to risk her life.  It was like telling all women they we exist to be birth vessels and if we chose not to follow this biological imperative we are less than somehow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I watched this episode and I kept thinking that something felt so wrong about it but I couldn&#8217;t express what.  You are right it was the privilege all over the place.  Cuddy could not consider an older child, or one of a different race.  I also didn&#8217;t like the shaming of the mother when she said that she didn&#8217;t want to risk her life.  It was like telling all women they we exist to be birth vessels and if we chose not to follow this biological imperative we are less than somehow.</p>
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		<title>By: Bene Gesserit Witch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bene Gesserit Witch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 20:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really?  Oh, that&#039;s appalling.  Pity that their intent didn&#039;t come out in the result...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really?  Oh, that&#8217;s appalling.  Pity that their intent didn&#8217;t come out in the result&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: mzbitca</title>
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		<dc:creator>mzbitca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 19:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I assumed so as well and the I went to Television without Pity expecting to hearing that voiced and found the writer had completely taken Cuddy&#039;s side. I was pretty shocked that anyone could see it as anything but Cuddy steamrolling over this poor woman because Cuddy felt she was &quot;owed&quot; a baby</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I assumed so as well and the I went to Television without Pity expecting to hearing that voiced and found the writer had completely taken Cuddy&#8217;s side. I was pretty shocked that anyone could see it as anything but Cuddy steamrolling over this poor woman because Cuddy felt she was &#8220;owed&#8221; a baby</p>
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		<title>By: Bene Gesserit Witch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bene Gesserit Witch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 18:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m totally with you, mzbitca, the ep disquieted me to no end.  But I do think that the privilege thing was intentional, that we the audience were supposed to see Cuddy as behaving really badly.  My sympathy level was low.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m totally with you, mzbitca, the ep disquieted me to no end.  But I do think that the privilege thing was intentional, that we the audience were supposed to see Cuddy as behaving really badly.  My sympathy level was low.</p>
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